Pretty much all of that before my time Rayne, but at least you get the point that Raven missed. Our "assumptions" of Bonak are based on ingame experiences, his "assumptions" of HoS come from reading message boards. At least Rayne is basing his attitude on what he sees ingame.
As for the 1v1, scared, etc Rayne, maybe your experiences are different, but when I'm solo 50% of people (including 126+s) run/recall at the sight of me. 25% call in help and the other 25% fight. I don't go with the "you hate hos coz we ownz you" idea, although I do believe thats true for some people. Most people I believe read the propaganda on the boards, see HoS members doing exactly what 90% of the server does but because they just read it on VN it ratifies what they read and so believe it of HoS and not others. I don't deny its true for some of HoS, but not as much as people make out, and no more than all bar a couple of guilds on DT.
I've run into about 200% more trashtalk since fighting antis than I ever did fighting rpks. Any time its been even numbers above 2 on each time any antis I'm fighting run (eg if its 4v4). Often if they outnumber us they run/recall. Heck take Godfather II out of the equation and I'd say I've had more antis plog/@die etc than rpks on me.
Also a lot of what people see as running is *beep*. Example 1) I recall in to TI with 1 or 2 people camping, they vuln me as I race off east and yell at me to fight. To them I'm scared and running away, in reality theres 3 HoS members fighting 6 targets on the beach and I'm on my way to help out. Example 2) 3 of us chase a blood past the VoD drop where a pile of other bloods (including blood himself) is waiting. They chase after us saying "why come to DT if all you do is run" "all hos does is run!" etc. After we kill the target we were on we turn on them and 5 mins later Blood is all alone and running for the hills. I think the most common one though is when a pack of HoS is chasing someone and it ends up with just one HoS and the person left and as the person turns to fight the HoS turns to run back. When we're a group we fight as a group. Thats what makes us successful. We take out larger numbers by sticking together and splitting our targets up. It does the group no good at all to be off in whoop whoop having a 1v1, your job is back with the group picking off targets. In fact if someone shows a repeat tendency to run off from the group and 1v1 I wont raid with him anymore. I'm more than happy to 1v1 (even 2v1 or worse) when I'm out raiding solo, but when I'm in a group I expect everyone to work as a group, not as individuals.
But back to Bonak, you can talk all you want about "not everyone is like that", "your just seeing the bottom of the barrel" or whatever, but my opinions are based on ingame actions and thats all I'm seeing. Maybe your "good" members are tucked away at the mansion or something, but other than Binky I've not seen a single bonak member worth spitting on.